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I'd imagine retrying/reconnecting is compatible with the general "let it fail" approach. If you just sent a message/request to an actor/server and it still hasn't responded after 5 seconds, you can send another. It wouldn't matter whether that actor/server died from a regular error or a "let it fail" error, the retrying would still work the same.
> If you just sent a message/request to an actor/server and it still hasn't responded after 5 seconds, you can send another. This depends on the message. I hope amazon doesn't just send another message if my transaction didn't complete in 5 seconds. I think like all pieces of wisdom, sometimes it's OK to let it fail, and sometimes its OK to handle the errors. If anyone ever tells me to always do X or never do X, it's…
I do, but only while also associating a stable nonce to the transaction.