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Lessons I wish I had been taught (1996)

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Re: Lessons I wish I had been taught (1996)

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post #16

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Then why side income? If you're not going to worry about your career, why worry about side income?

The point is by the time you reach mid 40s, ensure you don't have to depend on a salary to run a family.

That advice more and more doesn't work in this day and age. Though it's a good goal, just not that achievable

Re: Lessons I wish I had been taught (1996)

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post #11

Related: Ten Lessons I Wish I Had Been Taught (1997) [pdf] - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=23722803 - July 2020 (52 comments) Lessons I Wish I Had Been Taught (1996) [pdf] - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=15989599 - Dec 2017 (28 comments) Lessons I wish I had been taught (1996) - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=11747598 - May 2016 (20 comments) Lessons I wish I had been Taught - https://news.ycombin…

lol ppl keep submitting this. I knew what it was before even clicking the link.

Re: Lessons I wish I had been taught (1996)

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post #5

>>10 Be prepared for old age Like my dad adviced me. As you age worry only about four things: Health, Relationships, Side income and Free time. Forget about career, accolades, titles, awards or recognitions, nothing is really remembered in this world where kids can't remember their parent's birthday or what they had in dinner yesterday.

Assuming the things you don't worry about are things you got in the bag, things you don't need to worry about because they're a given

Re: Lessons I wish I had been taught (1996)

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post #11

Related: Ten Lessons I Wish I Had Been Taught (1997) [pdf] - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=23722803 - July 2020 (52 comments) Lessons I Wish I Had Been Taught (1996) [pdf] - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=15989599 - Dec 2017 (28 comments) Lessons I wish I had been taught (1996) - https://news.ycombinator.com/item?id=11747598 - May 2016 (20 comments) Lessons I wish I had been Taught - https://news.ycombin…

lol ppl keep submitting this. I knew what it was before even clicking the link.

It's new for someone!

https://xkcd.com/1053/

(Playing HN on easy mode: grab almost any top story from a few years ago and repost it. It's not even bad if people are interested.)

Re: Lessons I wish I had been taught (1996)

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> My late friend Stan Ulam used to remark that his life was sharply divided into two halves. In the first half, he was always the youngest person in the group; in the second half, he was always the oldest. There was no transitional period. Agree.

Yeah, this is happening to me now! the transition is happening quickly! :-O

Re: Lessons I wish I had been taught (1996)

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post #14

> Blackboard Technique Use Whiteboard. Worst teaching experiences in my life have featured blackboards. Ooh that scree of the chalk and the eraser that does no such thing. Mind you, I haVE bad experiences with whiteboards too, particulary when the previous user defaced the board with non-whiteboard markers

Maybe irreverent here but a permanent marker used on a whiteboard can be erased by a dry erase marker, it's basically magic

Re: Lessons I wish I had been taught (1996)

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post #16

Earlier quoted context omitted.

The point is by the time you reach mid 40s, ensure you don't have to depend on a salary to run a family.

What's the reasoning for this strategy? Is the idea that it's harder to retain a salary job if your older (I'm assuming because you are likely more expensive and a target for redundancy)?

For a lot of us, the work we do is meaningless and takes us away from what we would enjoy doing with our limited remaining years. It might be a good strategy to find meaningful work but it's unlikely to compare favorably to spending time with ones family (for example).

This only works if you can afford it, of course.

Re: Lessons I wish I had been taught (1996)

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If someone like Gian-Carlo Rota took the International Math Olympiad how well would he do? Would someone with a PhD in math and some published papers find it easy? Or do Olympiad problems require a separate technique to solve them efficiently compared to dissertations and papers. Olympiad problems seme to be heavy in combinatorics, symmetry, and 'tricks' to find ways to simply them.

Re: Lessons I wish I had been taught (1996)

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post #5

>>10 Be prepared for old age Like my dad adviced me. As you age worry only about four things: Health, Relationships, Side income and Free time. Forget about career, accolades, titles, awards or recognitions, nothing is really remembered in this world where kids can't remember their parent's birthday or what they had in dinner yesterday.

If you cannot see your legacy, then why do anything. What difference does it make if others don't remember if you cannot witness it anyway. I understand the part about family and relationships, but success sure feels good too even if no one cares after you are dead.

Re: Lessons I wish I had been taught (1996)

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If someone like Gian-Carlo Rota took the International Math Olympiad how well would he do? Would someone with a PhD in math and some published papers find it easy? Or do Olympiad problems require a separate technique to solve them efficiently compared to dissertations and papers. Olympiad problems seme to be heavy in combinatorics, symmetry, and 'tricks' to find ways to simply them.

Wonder if it's the same thing with CS professors and Leetcode...
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