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Great idea... in a safe city
It must be exhausting being this afraid of the world around you
Some places are just genuinely scary. Some aren't. Let the stats be your guide.
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This is probably one of my favorite activities in foreign cities - walk or take public transportation aimlessly for a few hours. Buy a snack that catches my eye, or find a cafe or pub to linger at long enough to see the ebb and flow of foot traffic. Directed tourism is fine, but seeing a few randomly sampled slices of a culture and place gives the experience 'roots' for me in some intangible way.
It’s even better when you unknowingly walk to an attraction—-the discovery and brief disorientation is so satisfying. “Is that really the Sagrada Familia above those buildings? It looks a bit small. Hmm, let’s walk closer. It’s huge!”
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Something tells me you spend very little time in cities, period.
On the contrary. I've never lived in a non-city, and have spent most of my life surrounded by 10m+ people. Check your biases.
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On the contrary. I've never lived in a non-city, and have spent most of my life surrounded by 10m+ people. Check your biases.
And what of the bias that says "every city that I deem 'unsafe' is indeed unsafe"?
One aspect of flânerie is that it goes beyond strolling _for one's self_. The point isn't to stroll aimlessly with an empty mind. It in fact is to help one understand the city in which they are in, to better comprehend it, to feel it. You are in it in order to see it. I think the more often one practices flânerie the better they are at discerning what part of town they just wandered into, and can thus decide whether…
Conversations with Tyler (with urbanist Alain Bertaud)[1] COWEN: Next question from the iPad: “When you arrive into a city you’ve never been to, what and how do you prioritize what to see?” BERTAUD: Before Google Earth, I will just walk randomly through the city and usually start from the center, and to have a cross-section toward the suburbs. I will just walk for hours. Just as my father recommended, look with the i…
One aspect of flânerie is that it goes beyond strolling _for one's self_. The point isn't to stroll aimlessly with an empty mind. It in fact is to help one understand the city in which they are in, to better comprehend it, to feel it. You are in it in order to see it. I think the more often one practices flânerie the better they are at discerning what part of town they just wandered into, and can thus decide whether…
I had a wonderful time of my life randomly wandering around Paris. I arrived at the train station, wandered around, found a hotel, checked in, went out, forgot to remember where my hotel was, wandered around some more, decided to go back to the hotel, then realized I had no clue where it was, so wandered around a hell of a lot more, finally wandered back to the train station, then retraced my wandering steps to the h…
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Great idea... in a safe city
The same behaviors will get you mugged in safe cities and unsafe cities. Wonder like a local. Look casually disinterested just like you're walking home from work.
I have wandered all over a bunch of Mexican cities, and still have only ever been mugged on a hiking trail in the N. Georgia (US) mountains.
This is probably one of my favorite activities in foreign cities - walk or take public transportation aimlessly for a few hours. Buy a snack that catches my eye, or find a cafe or pub to linger at long enough to see the ebb and flow of foot traffic. Directed tourism is fine, but seeing a few randomly sampled slices of a culture and place gives the experience 'roots' for me in some intangible way.
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This is my first comment but I have read this site daily since I created the account in March. I felt that my experience would be a valuable addition to the thread and I am not attempting to speak for all women. I'm sorry if it came off that way and I am genuinely happy that you haven't had this experience. This site seems to be a bit of an echo chamber sometimes so I thought I'd offer a differing opinion.
I hope you keep commenting! I think your experience brought a good balance to an otherwise one-sided viewpoint. I think a lot of people here haven't really been exposed to actual dangerous areas in the world, but even in seemingly safe areas, I know a lot of my female friends feel very unsafe walking there alone. All it takes is one drunk dude...