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Re: Ask HN: How to keep my daughter busy while tickling her curiosity

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Maybe look at building up manual skills if possible. When my daughter was 11 y/o I as doing a lot of DIY plumbing in the house and I taught her to cut and bend (copper) pipes, and solder pipe joints. We used a gas torch, much to the horror of my S.O, but it was a useful skill learned and she got really good at it.

I think learning to "think with your hands" is not a recognized academic skill, but yet there's something real about it.

If at all possible, teach her to ride a bike and to actually be able to get around on one if your locale is suitable for it.

Re: Ask HN: How to keep my daughter busy while tickling her curiosity

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Being unemployed probably means you don't have a huge budget, but some for our child I've tried to do a little bit of "everything" to see what he enjoys. When I ask him what he wants to do he says "I don't know", so I say "We're going swimming in the sea", "Lets plant some seeds", "Today we're cooking / sewing", "Lets pick a spot on the map and go visit it by bus/tram", or "Lets draw pokemon evolving". (maps are kind…

"being unemployed" could also be a euphemism for "i sold my startup for $100s of millions"

Re: Ask HN: How to keep my daughter busy while tickling her curiosity

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post #48

I don't know where you lives, but do hicking with her if you have time. Try to do some theater of mind games (d&d or whatever she or both likes). Maybe you can't afford going somewhere but nothings tie you there. Talking about that if you lives in a city big enough, there must to be hidden places with a story to tell, grab a map a visit that with her. Think about a story you can tell with that. I learnt more about bu…

Great suggestions and you inspired me. What is Dresden Files?

Re: Ask HN: How to keep my daughter busy while tickling her curiosity

#64

You both might enjoy an Australian TV series called "Curiosity Show". It is science / technology focused and aimed at kids around your daughters age. They explain a lot of fun sciencey things, puzzles and magic tricks that can be made at home from very easy to find parts. The YT channel has over 1000 short videos : https://youtube.com/c/CuriosityShow It was made in the 70s and 80s yet much is still totally relevant t…

Just watched two of them, very cool. I had no idea that animas and birds that eat fish whole always always always eat the fish head-first.

Re: Ask HN: How to keep my daughter busy while tickling her curiosity

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Might be off topic but a nugget from having two girls (5 and 11). Kids don’t care about budget or how much things cost. We have toys we’ve spent hundreds of dollars on only to have the near free to free one be a hit. I say this to make sure you know your employment status likely only effects your kids if it effects you. Or said differently, to the extent it effects you it will effect them.

Kids will generally have fun with anything you show a degree of interest in. The copper pipe plumbing example in this thread is a perfect example. A simple Task became a life long activity for the kid. They will remember it forever and tell someone in the future “this time I welded with my dad”… they won’t remember that time my dad didn’t hire a plumber.

Things off the top of my head that have been a hit - Planting plants Fashion design Basic coding activities or contests Shooting Anything that requires safety procedures Lawn work (but make it fun or set a timer) Writing a story where they write some of it, you add in silly bits, they write more , repeat till laughing out loud. Both my girls super in to etiquette

Best of luck buddy and squeeze these years for as much as you can.

Re: Ask HN: How to keep my daughter busy while tickling her curiosity

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I've heard this from a couple of people - get her to dictate a story to you while you type it up (assuming you can type faster than she can). If it is long enough then you can send it off to a book printing service and get 5 copies or something. It costs a bit but the kids really get a kick out of it. You can design the cover art with her as well if she is into that.

If you have any pets, make them the main characters in the story. Anthropomorphize then.

Re: Ask HN: How to keep my daughter busy while tickling her curiosity

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post #48

I don't know where you lives, but do hicking with her if you have time. Try to do some theater of mind games (d&d or whatever she or both likes). Maybe you can't afford going somewhere but nothings tie you there. Talking about that if you lives in a city big enough, there must to be hidden places with a story to tell, grab a map a visit that with her. Think about a story you can tell with that. I learnt more about bu…

Great suggestions and you inspired me. What is Dresden Files?

Books: https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/The_Dresden_Files

Re: Ask HN: How to keep my daughter busy while tickling her curiosity

#68

Make a stop motion video - there are cheap/free apps that make it really easy to do Not sure if you have any instruments around the house, but make a song with her Like another poster said, make magazine. They have tooons of good projects.

Stop Motion Studio by Cateater is a good app iirc. It's available for at least iOs, Android and Windows.

Re: Ask HN: How to keep my daughter busy while tickling her curiosity

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post #48

I don't know where you lives, but do hicking with her if you have time. Try to do some theater of mind games (d&d or whatever she or both likes). Maybe you can't afford going somewhere but nothings tie you there. Talking about that if you lives in a city big enough, there must to be hidden places with a story to tell, grab a map a visit that with her. Think about a story you can tell with that. I learnt more about bu…

Great suggestions and you inspired me. What is Dresden Files?

> What is Dresden Files?

It is a fantasy/mystery novel series written by Jim Butcher.

The sorries follow the titular Harry Dresden, who is a wizard-for-hire investigating supernatural disturbances in modern day Chicago. It can be described as a hard-boiled detective novel with fantasy elements.

Re: Ask HN: How to keep my daughter busy while tickling her curiosity

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Might be off topic but a nugget from having two girls (5 and 11). Kids don’t care about budget or how much things cost. We have toys we’ve spent hundreds of dollars on only to have the near free to free one be a hit. I say this to make sure you know your employment status likely only effects your kids if it effects you. Or said differently, to the extent it effects you it will effect them. Kids will generally have fu…

Yes, time with dad. Get outside and walk or hike. Play in dirt. Explore plants and flowers. Splash in a creek. My daughter really enjoyed the affordable bow&arrow with foam target.
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