I'm very interested in Tailscale for both personal and business use-cases, but I'm rather put off by the stark centralization of offered identity providers: Microsoft, Github (Microsoft), Google, okta (?). What are the chances that Tailscale would offer authentication using decentralized/self-hosted identity providers like Ory ( https://www.ory.sh/ )?
They offer custom SSO providers using SAML or OIDC https://tailscale.com/kb/1119/sso-saml-oidc/ Unfortunately they are locked behind Enterprise pricing because of the extra help and debugging needed to get them working. Maybe at some point this will be offered standard though.
It's essentially an onboarding wizard that works for any identity provider. This makes the SAML/OIDC configuration self-serve, which in turn allows you to easily provide SSO to anyone who wants it. The UI can also be branded with your logo/colors and run on your own custom domain.