And you imply that there
isn't value in having friends and family, spending time with your spouse and kids. When a person has a spouse and kids they have responsibilities to their family. Not everyone has
your values either.
As someone who has just taken his first employment, I've only been self-employed up to this point, I've found that even a 40 hour work week is restrictive. I'm still used to spending time with my family when work is low, or when I need to distance myself from a problem to properly think about it. I can't even lean into the other room now and ask, "Hey, anyone else want a cup of tea?" on my weekdays now.
I've fallen straight into schedule hell because I am a morning person, and now my only real time to "do things" with friends and family is in the evening... when I want/need to get some sleep.
You might call it selfish if you like, but how selfish is it to
> There's value in learning and getting better at building things. There's value in enjoying what you do and taking pride in building something you're proud of, even if it never makes a dollar.
at the cost of your friends and family? Especially your family! Too many kids grow up without parents because their parents are selfish workaholics.
Just because the values aren't held universally doesn't make them invalid. Sometimes, what is held universally is the worst thing you could possibly hold. You might grab an electric fence and feel okay, but who are you touching that's getting shocked in your stead?