This is some strange notion of zero-knowledge. If Bob publishes his link, and I want to know who his crush is, I can simply try all our classmates' names and quickly find out that it's Alice. Those games only make at least a bit of sense when everybody enters their crush and only when matching both get notified. Also brute-forceable, but at least it's quadratic (if you suspect nothing about crushes, which is unrealis…
> Those games only make at least a bit of sense when everybody enters their crush and only when matching both get notified. Even then, among heterosexuals they will suffer from the same problem as basically every software platform for romance among straight people: the massive asymmetry in interest between men and women. Men would copy and paste virtually every woman they know into the system as a "crush," so they ca…
Smart men would, who know their place in the world. Any of them are good enough for you, really. Take the one that you like the most out of the ones who like you. Is this a problem? If it weren't asymmetric, it would be hopeless. Instead, most men get the choice between one or more interested women, and most women get a response from one or more of the men they were interested in.
It's better if one side isn't as picky as the other. The other options are that only a couple of people match up at all, or everyone getting a response from everyone i.e. no signal at all.
edit: I mean, isn't that Bumble?