The thing you're noticing is the usual thing that happens when new labor saving technology is invented:
1. What people expect: less work needs to be done to get what you had before.
2. What people don't expect: more is expected because what used to be hard is now simple
So while it may have taken a few weeks to set up a pet server before and as a stretch goal you may have made your app resilient to failures with backoff retry loops etc. Now that's a trivial feature of the infrastructure, and you get monitoring with a quick helm deploy. The problems haven't disappeared, you're just operating on a different level of problems now. Now you have to worry about cascading failures, optimizing autoscaling to save money. You are optimizing your node groups to ensure your workloads have enough slack per machine to handle bursts of activity, but not so much slack that most of your capacity is wasted idling.
Meanwhile, your developers are building applications that are more complex because the capabilities are greater. They have worker queues that are designed to run on cheap spot instances. Your CI pipelines now do automatic rollouts, whereas before you used to hold back releases for 3 months because deploying was such a pain.
Fundamentally, what happens when your tools get better is you realize how badly things were being done before and your ambition increases.