I generally agree with you, but I think your reasoning is partially nonsense.
I haven't benefit very much from government infrastructure. Woo, we have roads now. Where multiple of my family members have died, and most of my family members have been traumatized by those deaths. The person who raised me nearly died in one, and it left us even further in the poverty trap than we otherwise would have been, because of millions of dollars in hospital bills, even with insurance, thirty years ago, that we spent decades paying off. Oh, internet? I had dial-up growing up in the 2000s because my local government sucked and the wider governments sucked.
Honestly, my education sucked. It was actively harmful to my development. Government incentives historically kept my family in poverty, leaving my societal background awful, and filled with terrible people. And, on top of all of that, every two years, there's a 50% chance that a government I despise becomes in charge. Even when a government I find tolerable is in charge, more goes to funding wars than anything I genuinely care about. "Billionaires aren't paying fair taxes!" becomes a campaign point, rather than anything that could genuinely help people, because no politician is interested in fixing things.
The one thing that is unambiguously good about the US government, the Postal Service, has been getting slowly dismantled and made inefficient over the last decades.
Evading taxes is the only morally correct thing to do in America. I'm not going to evade them, because I'm not a moral person and prefer the convenience of not being randomly investigated by the IRS.
We should tax billionaires and companies because billionaires and companies suck. That's the valid reason. Cloaking it in false-utilitarianism is nonsense. Taxation should be punitive.