People do also occasionally message me with feature requests or put them in the public room.
I will say though that the times I have directly asked groups of users what product or feature to build, I have mostly received crickets. Before I built the main product I practically begged a couple of Discord communities to tell me what they needed/wanted. It took awhile and I got a single response. I built that and then had everyone else in the community tell me how badly they had needed it.
I don't know what it is really but it can be like extracting teeth. But the sort of leaders may eventually give feedback.