If some Indian tells you that they are progressive and caste is not followed these days, ask them which caste their spouse belongs to. And that will answer how progressive they are.
Caste is another word for tribe. All across the world, the vast majority of people marry in their own tribe, for a variety of reasons. I married within my own tribe because I like my tribe’s food and customs, and I wanted a spouse who likes the same. It all comes down to socioeconomic class at the end anyway, whether it be called “caste”, or “doctor/lawyer/engineer”, or MIT/cal tech/Stanford grad, etc. If you have a…
A person can get killed for marrying into the wrong caste and it happens often enough in India. https://indianexpress.com/article/cities/pune/dalit-youth-be...
A low caste person can get killed if they "trespass" even by having mustache which is only allowed for the upper caste in parts of India or if they are seen eating before the so-called upper castes. Or for just making eye contact!
https://www.opindia.com/2022/03/rajasthan-dalit-man-jitendra...
https://www.bbc.com/news/world-asia-india-48265387
Or you can get killed for something as simple as riding a horse! https://thewire.in/caste/family-alleges-dalit-boy-was-killed...
Or being seated in front of the upper caste.. https://www.hindustantimes.com/india-news/dalit-youth-thrash...
In almost all of these cases the cops and the law enforcement will put pressure on the victim's family to withdraw cases.
Any Indian who argues that caste oppression doesn't happen in India now is not misinformed - they are just lying.