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Re: Heresy

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This thing where people want to say horrible things without consequence is just so weird. I have the right to judge your statements just as much as you have a right to say them. I have the right to leave jobs when it turns out the people working there hate people like me, and companies have the right to hire people who aren't going to alienate future potential employees. When people bring up posts like this they neve…

> People are getting called out for denying the existence of people who aren't like them.

I see this a lot and it makes no sense to me. What does it mean to deny the existence of someone? To pretend they do not exist?

People who make that comment usually seem to be falling into a trap of viewing a disagreement or difference in opinion as something much more extreme.

Re: Heresy

#124
post #11

This thing where people want to say horrible things without consequence is just so weird. I have the right to judge your statements just as much as you have a right to say them. I have the right to leave jobs when it turns out the people working there hate people like me, and companies have the right to hire people who aren't going to alienate future potential employees. When people bring up posts like this they neve…

Here's one: I don't believe that gender identity is a valid concept. Does that make for a hostile work environment or "deny the existence" of anyone? I submit to you that the answer is no, except for die-hard adherents of the new ideology. Well, that simply isn't my religion, and I resent attempts to force it on me.

s/gender/religious/g and see how well things go down.

Re: Heresy

#126
post #39

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Here's one: I don't believe that gender identity is a valid concept. Does that make for a hostile work environment or "deny the existence" of anyone? I submit to you that the answer is no, except for die-hard adherents of the new ideology. Well, that simply isn't my religion, and I resent attempts to force it on me.

It does not really matter what your stance on that topic is. If your co-workers don't what to be called a certain way, just respect that. E.g. I don't want to be called by my full first name but rather a short version of it. If you deliberately disrespect my request that is simply hostile.

How far does this extend in reasonableness though? If my co-worker asked me to refer to them as "your highness" for example?

Re: Heresy

#127
post #11

This thing where people want to say horrible things without consequence is just so weird. I have the right to judge your statements just as much as you have a right to say them. I have the right to leave jobs when it turns out the people working there hate people like me, and companies have the right to hire people who aren't going to alienate future potential employees. When people bring up posts like this they neve…

> This thing where people want to say horrible things without consequence is just so weird.

Define horrible.

Re: Heresy

#128
post #6

I mean, this is the only real response to people posting this sort of nonsense. https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=XkCBhKs4faI

YouTube blocked in the US based on copyright grounds.

Title: Stewart Lee - These days, if you say you're English ...

Is a clip from a BBC show (Stewart Lee's Comedy Vehicle, worth a watch if you enjoy British comedy) so copyright block not too surprising depending on where you're located.

He basically takes the piss out of a taxi driver. The stereotype goes that a taxi driver will share their "bloody immigrants" opinions with their fares whether the fares care about hearing it or not.

Cabbie says: "These days, you get arrested and thrown in jail if you say you're English, don't you."

Stewart "wears him down" in the bit by repeating the question back with increasing incredulity and after about 3 minutes the cabbie character eventually just says, "no, you don't actually get arrested."

It's fckin hilarious.

Re: Heresy

#129
post #11

This thing where people want to say horrible things without consequence is just so weird. I have the right to judge your statements just as much as you have a right to say them. I have the right to leave jobs when it turns out the people working there hate people like me, and companies have the right to hire people who aren't going to alienate future potential employees. When people bring up posts like this they neve…

If it were only about a hostile work environment, it would only be about behavior/speech in the workplace that is not easily avoidable.

But a lot of these heresies are about behavior/speech outside the workplace, or behavior/speech that you need to actively look for.

So I don't buy the "hostile work environment" justification.

Re: Heresy

#130
post #48
post #11

This thing where people want to say horrible things without consequence is just so weird. I have the right to judge your statements just as much as you have a right to say them. I have the right to leave jobs when it turns out the people working there hate people like me, and companies have the right to hire people who aren't going to alienate future potential employees. When people bring up posts like this they neve…

Can you explain what it means to "deny the existence" of someone? I see this expression often, but I'm genuinely puzzled by what it means in practice. I agree with you that "purposely misgendering one's colleagues" should lead to firing, but I think this article isn't about that. It's about people who are tolerant of others and in general try to be nice people, but just disagree about certain things - for example, ho…

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