I recently had to speak with the Zelle FPD because it had frozen my ability to send (but not receive) after I had made some small trial transactions. Also, I use a Google Voice number with Zelle, which Zelle seems not to like.
I was shocked at the depth of questions that the Zelle FPD agent asked me. My SSN, DOB, address and recent transactions were expected. But then it went deeper: state where my birth certificate was issued. Fine. Car loans I had. Okay, this is all stuff on my credit report. But then it went past me: where my kids were born and their DOBs; my brother's DOB and age; my wife's DOB and age; my mother-in-law's (!) maiden name. Keep in mind this all after I've authenticated myself to my bank including a phone password I have setup. And, it's for a secondary checking account that I have less than $1000 in.
Real bank FPDs have a crazy amount of information on not just you, but also your family members.
I personally would hang up if any of my financial institutions called me and I'd call them back.