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Find better bosses and employers. They are out there.
At the end of the day, even the best bosses care about making money, because that’s what _their_ bosses (i.e. investors) care about. So even if you find a boss/employer that is supportive of “the fun stuff” for a season, that will eventually come to an end.
You also should spend a portion time learning as it enables you to create more value over time.
And yes you should take time to get to know your colleagues, take breaks, play ping pong, etc. This helps you refresh yourself and avoid running out of steam.
But the work is meant to create value, hence why you are rewarding with currency you can exchange for things you value.
Manage a positive work life balance and and do the "fun" stuff outside of work. Life is not all work and work is not all of life.