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But there’s no slider. Typically you slide the instance size for other reasons. Here’s the thing: either you care about it (and you can game the sizing of the instance) or you dont and you run kubernetes. But you if you don’t care then it doesn’t matter. There’s no slider for you to care about. It is not extra overhead.
why is this slider important? You’ve picked something very arbitrary here
But you configure the exact same things as with VMs and kubernetes.
Network performance (as per OP) is not configurable on either.
You just accept whatever accidental default you happen to have, it's not a conscious decision people are making, and it's an awkward assumption to say that you have to think about it.
Because if you have to think about it: that doesn't go away with kubernetes anyway: if anything it probably gets worse.