Actually I made that mistake I sometimes make.. Because of high empathy, I will take on someone else's perspective and agree with them because I can feel how they see it like they do... Even when it's not actually like that for me.
Yesterday I wasn't bitter at all...I think I just 'admitted to it' because I didn't want to disagree. I wanted to try to find like a common ground and because of my empathy with you, I could really feel your perspective. But actually I wasn't bitter, I was just curious that this one got up and mine didn't and I was also competitive like, "you know, I win anyway cuz I scooped you. Okay you got the votes but I scooped you, so I win" That's honestly how I felt about it. So for me, it wasn't bitter at all, just curious and competitive. I do get if you feel that way about it, and I get if you felt there was bitterness there or you just thought that's how you would feel in that situation, but I think you were just finding there what you bring to it. So thank you for sharing but that was just you projecting your feeling onto mine, and then me taking that on, as a mistake. :)
In future I hope I can say these type of things more concisely. I feel it's annoying when people misrepresent me, and then I take longer to represent myself clearly, than they took to misrepresent me. I would love to make a shorter reply than the original misrepresentation! That's a goal I have, it's a definite opportunity for improvement for me.
Anyway I'm sorry to me for just agreeing yesterday without really thinking through and being authentic to me...even though I kind of I felt what I was saying was wrong for me at the time, but I just decided to find a way to agree, that was a mistake. It's a mistake I've made sometimes, because of high empathy and not always happy to disagree. I'm sorry to everyone else here is sort of you know reading all this stuff but it's important enough both to say so people know me authentically here but also is a lesson for me that I want to post this. Thanks!