> What ought to be my main focus? Develop your technical skills during the week, develop your social skill during the weekend. A lot are only doing the first, even on the weekend (or only the second, even during the week). While raw skill is cool, it's important that you can work in a team, that your boss likes you and your colleagues can work with you. Attend parties, talk to strangers, learn how to do some small-ta…
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#72> What ought to be my main focus? Develop your technical skills during the week, develop your social skill during the weekend. A lot are only doing the first, even on the weekend (or only the second, even during the week). While raw skill is cool, it's important that you can work in a team, that your boss likes you and your colleagues can work with you. Attend parties, talk to strangers, learn how to do some small-ta…
Make as many mistakes as you can so can learn from it in an error-friendly ecosystem.
Host / Organize or volunteer events best way to work with others, socialize. Establish groups for long rewarding networks. Remember the folks who are walking around your campus are going to go around and take many leadership roles not to far out in the future.
If you are in tech, real usefulness of Tech is with the non-tech folks usage pattern. Ex: There are more brains working on ADs than medical imaging. Talk to them, help them apply tech into their workflows. Your simple tech tool can be a significant productivity tool for them.
Strike healthy relationships with other genders beyond dating. Helps you relate better with other genders and will help in the future in your personal and professional life.
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#73> What ought to be my main focus? Develop your technical skills during the week, develop your social skill during the weekend. A lot are only doing the first, even on the weekend (or only the second, even during the week). While raw skill is cool, it's important that you can work in a team, that your boss likes you and your colleagues can work with you. Attend parties, talk to strangers, learn how to do some small-ta…
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#74Be consistent when studying.
Actually learn what is being taught (instead of copying people's homeworks.
Grow your network.
Don't try to compete with the other students. University is not a competition. It is much much better if everybody just help each other. I landed my dream job because someone from the University liked me.
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#75It sounds like you have a good path on your technical skills, so I'm going to suggest something else: take some humanities classes. Pick topics outside of technology that interest you, and learn how to communicate about them. Take as many seminar discussion and writing-heavy classes as you can. Hopefully they are there even at a technical university. From a career perspective, programming skill is relatively easy to…
But thank you, good writing is certainly a skill that is going to be useful - good idea to work on that.
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#76The best way to get a good job is to hear about it from someone you know.
Be a person people want to work with, and become a person people like to work for.
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#77Disclaimer, I'm based in the US so your experience may differ. But here's my advice: - Apply to internships/co-ops early and often. - Develop your social network with the other students in your classes. - Don't focus on grades beyond what's required to pass your classes. - DO focus on learning how to be a good programmer by doing side projects and programming constantly. - If there are programming competitions at you…
Interesting you said "co-op", which part of the US are you from? I've only ever heard that term used in Canada (I attend UWaterloo) and some northeastern US universities. People at UCLA/UC Berkeley were pretty confused when I said "co-op".
At least when I was going to school co-ops were time you spent working for a company for which you'd receive some kind of credit or fulfill some degree requirement.
Internships generally didn't have any connection to the school and were only for the purpose of gaining experience and developing your career.
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#79You have people here on this thread on hackernews for gods sake telling people to connect to others. On hackernews, the Nerd Central. So that just emphasizes the importance of doing it when a bunch of nerds are telling you to go out and meet people. And if you are socially anxious, talk to a doctor asap. You want to make this college experience good. Your doctor can help you out with some antidepressants that just lifts all the anxiety from you so you can talk to others. They work, really good too for highly neurotic kids like many of us. Don't focus your efforts on being liked, rather, focus your efforts on connecting deeply with a few really important people in your university.
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#80Earlier quoted context omitted.
I would agree with this. Your first goal absolutely has to be that you successfully complete your degree. I know a person who failed to do this, and the results are bad. Finish! However -- most people do. So if you're reasonably conscientious you'll be fine. After that: Work to get an internship every semester you have off (maybe unless you're traveling abroad, as recommended next). You'll make some money; you'll try…
This is a bit of a gut-punch to read, I just finished half of my degree, and have made virtually no friends. Obviously that is because of deeper social issues I have.
I'd originally written a long post here, but it was a little too identifiable, so let me just suggest:
1. "Hi, I'm $NAME" goes a long way.
2. So does "hey, anybody want to grab lunch later?"
3. If you cook, "hey, I'm making $WHATEVER" is also a good one.
4. If possible, try a living situation with roommates. It won't solve everything, but it helps a little.
5. People in real life tend to be better than they are on the Internet.