It's not the hardware, it's the crap that runs on it. You want a system which is secure and usable? Time for the DoD to commission their own OS. "Nobody will know how to use it!" is an objection which can be overcome by training, which is a thing that the armed forces understand. "It won't be compatible with the COTS!" is an advantage, not a disadvantage. "It will take too long and cost too much!" means that they are…
I'd advise they start with a Linux distro. They can audit/replace components as they go to increase security over time. Even North Korea wasn't paranoid to build it's own OS[0].