Ask HN: How do you get out of a rut?
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Re: Ask HN: How do you get out of a rut?
#152If you're anything like me, or anything like 90% of humanity, you can't rely on motivation to progress in life (whatever your idea of progression is). None of the platitudes or self-help-shaped advice you read here or on Reddit will help you with that. You can't trick yourself. What works for me is, as much as I don't like the word, discipline. I take an hour every week to review my routine and plans, when I'm inspir…
Re: Ask HN: How do you get out of a rut?
#153More from St. John Cassian on the “noonday devil”:
https://www.pathsoflove.com/acedia/cassian-acedia.html
Hope you feel better.
EDIT: Also, sometimes you are just tired and need a break. You know your situation best.
Re: Ask HN: How do you get out of a rut?
#154Re: Ask HN: How do you get out of a rut?
#155What I mean is: usually when I end up in a rut, it's because I had been getting into one for a while and only finally noticed. At that point, the rut is usually starting to get baked into a daily/weekly habit. To get out of it means refocusing on things that matter to me: fulfilling personal relationships, family, personal health/growth, intellectual curiosity, and career growth, not in any particular order, and usually I have a decent idea of where to start, but the rut keeps me from starting.
So getting out of the rut involves taking that first step. The second step becomes easier, then the third becomes easier, and so on. It takes extra willpower but I find that it works as long as I remind myself it's worth it.
Re: Ask HN: How do you get out of a rut?
#156If you're anything like me, or anything like 90% of humanity, you can't rely on motivation to progress in life (whatever your idea of progression is). None of the platitudes or self-help-shaped advice you read here or on Reddit will help you with that. You can't trick yourself. What works for me is, as much as I don't like the word, discipline. I take an hour every week to review my routine and plans, when I'm inspir…
I've been using the same technique as you for at least 2 years now, and while I probably do get more done that way, sometimes I feel like it's sapping the life force out of me. Even when what I'm executing is creative, the process makes everything feel robotic. I'm really struggling with that lately.
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#157> I've found myself sitting at my desk each evening Wait, isn't that what daytime is for? Get out. Play games. Read. Write. Ride a bike. Build something with your hands, with code, whatever. Hit the gym. Cook complicated dishes. Go to restaurants. Join a club and make some friends. Even sleep more. You need to find what you like to do with your time, and truth is it's probably not what you want it to be. Picking up h…
Yeah I get tired of this response. YOU NEED DRUGS NOW! No, life is often boring and mundane. You will not be happy every second of it, if you were you wouldn't even know what happiness is because it wouldn't stand out. The solution is to force yourself to do something, whether you feel good is irrelevant. Motivation rarely appears on its own, it's a result of action. You do not wait around to feel motivated.
The problem is modern society gives you this option when for centuries waiting to feel some sort of innate internal motivation wasn't an option, you did what you had to for survival whether you felt like it or not.
Re: Ask HN: How do you get out of a rut?
#158Earlier quoted context omitted.
Just out of curiosity, have you tried psychedelics? Don't mean to imply that you are fully wrong in what you said, I just want to further know your perspective on it so I can reply based on that.
Let's just say I am very drug positive and believe in decriminalization of everything and legalization of everything non habit forming. Psychedelics are powerful drugs. It's hard to know if someone can help themselves out of a bad trip or if they will spiral further. It's hard to know how much the people around them can help if things become difficult. They don't always change your perspective in a positive way. I am…
Your argument boils down to "psychs can be dangerous, therefore some people shouldn't do them", which is a non statement, because this applies to so many other things, including certain vitamins for people with certain conditions.
Furthermore, when you talk about ambiguous terms like "can", you have to talk about some general sense of numeric probabilities of risk to be consistent with how you make decisions in day to day life. You definitely CAN get into a massive life destroying accident when you drive you car, but you chose to still drive because the benefit of efficient location change is worth it to you.
So for psychedelics solely based on research studies, here is what he currently know as far as benefits (im not going to link the papers, they are pretty easy to find though)
- Majority of people report positive effects in general.
- Majority of adults in studies who micro dose report anti-anxiety and anti-depression effects, and at those dosages, there is absolutely no reality altering experience
- In certain studies, a single dose can have lasting anti-anxiety/anti-depression effects for years, as well as evidence of breaking habits for other drugs like smoking/alcohol.
- Physiologically, the drugs are anti-addictive. Frequent use has exponentially diminishing effects. Furthermore, large dissociative trips aren't exactly a positive experience, they are mentally challenging and exhausting, so people are unlikely to use it as an escape mechanism.
- Physiologically, the drugs are very safe, no long term physical side effects. Of course there is a danger present if you buy synthesized LSD that is contaminated/cut with something, but for psilocybin, you grow the mushrooms yourself, and if you are buying them from somewhere, they really can't be cut with anything since they are not synthesized.
As far as dangers go
- Very rare cases of HPPD, usually associated with heavy repeated use
- Generally just a bad time for the duration of the trip (even on high dosages), no long lasting effects. Bad trips end being just bad experiences.
- Secondary derivative dangers from behavior resulting in disassociation due to large dosages, such as tripping/falling, e.t.c.
And thats pretty much it. Even for people with psychosis/schitzophrenia, the general recommendation is to avoid them, because there isn't enough data.
So if you look at all of that in terms of reward/risk, and do the same reward/risk for coffee, psychedelics are even better for you. With coffee, you can drink too much and become jittery and have a bad time, and it can be dangerous for people with heart problems, but for the average person, the benefits are generally positive (except caffeine is chemically addictive, unlike psychedelics)
Nobody is saying that you should do large doses off the bat either, its completely fine to do micro or mini doses, where you can feel the effects but still very much conscious and aware of reality.
So yes, I agree that some people shouldn't take psychedelics. I also agree that some people shouldn't drink coffee. For the majority of the population though, I absolutely believe that everyone who isn't psychotic/schizophrenic should try them, in whatever dose they feel comfortable doing. Not because of my personal experience, but because of the high statistical chance of a good experience, with downsides being very low risk.
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#159it's good because it is two-sided, like reality. While usualy only left-to-right a-then-b is assumed.. but there is the other way too, b-to-a, as it's about equivalence.
(so if you want many roads, ..)
There are not so many of these, i had some idea of collecting them..
Like "One is always learning while alive"
but.. Never did.
Re: Ask HN: How do you get out of a rut?
#160> I've found myself sitting at my desk each evening Wait, isn't that what daytime is for? Get out. Play games. Read. Write. Ride a bike. Build something with your hands, with code, whatever. Hit the gym. Cook complicated dishes. Go to restaurants. Join a club and make some friends. Even sleep more. You need to find what you like to do with your time, and truth is it's probably not what you want it to be. Picking up h…
Completely agree with this, getting variety into your day is also really important for your brain to properly rest. I can't remember where, but a few years ago I read that the brain rejuvinates not by doing nothing/sleeping/watching tv but by switching contexts and working on something new. If you've spent all day in university with a heavy day of lectures (sitting, listening, staring at a screen / whiteboard) you're…