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I think the point is valid. As a rust beginner I tried to make a graph data structure and it was difficult. Using RefCell is not very nice because it moves the problem from compile time to runtime and you still can’t mutate the same data structure more than once at the same time.
This is interesting but I don't know Rust. Presumably your graph data structure grows dynamically, meaning you have to add nodes at runtime. When. you say you can't mutate the same data structure more than once at runtime, what does it mean? That you can't set both a parent and a child pointer in the same function, or what?
In the case of RefCell, when you begin modifying its data, you’re not allowed to begin modifying its data a second time without declaring “I’m done” with the first modification. This makes doing several modifications in different places that are interspersed with each other tricky because it’s hard to reason about when each spot is actually done so that a modification can be performed elsewhere. (If your program is single threaded it’s possible you don’t even care about mutation happening in multiple places, but Rust cares because in general Rust programs need not be single threaded.)