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but because I need to control my emotion and how I respond. You discovered one the benefits of meditation.
Well, part of the problem meditation addresses is the desire to control one’s thoughts - which is usually counter productive. The more one tries to control and fight what is, the more pain that usually results. It’s usually more productive to notice them, notice their nature, and let them go when and where they do not serve your interests. With a small pat on the head, and some not small amount of empathy and caring.…
Effortless personal productivity (or how I learned to love my monkey mind)
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Is there a definition of "low filter" mode? I don't think I've heard of it before.
He kind of defines it in terms of the opposite: >But early in the day, my mind is hyper-analytical. It’s trying to analyze every word I write from ten different angles. Hence every tweet felt like hard work. People who just blurt out whatever they think without considering its effects or even how to word it are often said to have "no filter". That is often saying things they shouldn't, things that are inappropriate,…
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#94In the same vein, here’s a fun illustrated guide to procrastination (and fixing it) by Tim Urban: https://waitbutwhy.com/2013/10/why-procrastinators-procrasti... And accompanying TED Talk: https://youtu.be/arj7oStGLkU
That is so true it is not even funny. But the essay(s) don't mention ADHD at all. Is that intentional ? May be some dopomine deprived people don't even have a choice other than to embrace the monkey :-(
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#95I disagree that programming isn't done well in robot mode. Lots of things like test coverage & braindead text editing doesn't require analytical thinking. Hell, analytical thinking is overrated. Just pick a direction and go!
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I put my monkey in a cage. I went around and logged the things I happen to be doing in a spreadsheet for three weeks. Assuming those are mostly the things I'll be doing going forward I've categorized them into action-cards. Those have groupings by space (home, out, job) and time (night, noon, morning). One card is titled BURN. If you play that card you can do whatever for 25 minutes, but you can't play two in a row.…
At first I was like "but with those rules you could play BURN every other card, and that's not good" then I realized that if I'd only wasted half of an average waking day for the last couple decades, I'd probably be god-emperor of humanity. This does seem quite a bit like the Pomodoro method. Was that an inspiration? Did you try it and it didn't work? If so, why do you think that is?
Or maybe we can say: something about maintaining focus, or starting tasks for pomo; and understanding where you're coming from, where you're going and what to adjust for GTD.
A gym analogy would be: tracking your training program is GTD, having proper form is pomo. But nutrition and sleep are missing.
It may be the artifact of thinking of these things in scientific terms, reductionist and unfeeling. And feeling is important. Your reality is communicated to you by your perception, which is seated where your feeling is to be found. Everybody has the same amount of time in a day, yet the use of it is the thing that makes all the difference in a person's life. There is a whole dimension to be explored and perhaps a science to be established in that basic aspect of reality. It has to become a book, or many books, not just a single word like "discipline" or "executive function".
This field right now resembles witchcraft. We have rituals to perform, that sometimes work. We have myths to explain the "sometimes" part, but they involve dead relatives and phantom trauma. It clearly isn't even measuring the right things or it would be possible to solve it by maths, by stats and neural networks.
And so I've been feeling around. Trying to understand what different states of mind are like, what are they conducive of, and how to key myself into one or the other.
The pomo and GTD methods I come to understand like so:
- Do something, then feel different. Body first, head follows.
- Things take time. Getting with things takes 20-25 minutes, specifically.
- You can do meaningful progress in two half-hour stretches.
- A thing that takes less than 20 minutes is a "shit shoveling" kind of thing. You gotta do some early in the day. I've seen people say "seek discomfort". Procrastination behaviours are the exact opposite of that and are habitual, and as such can be learned and equally unlearned in about three weeks time. If it has a time-limit it is about to be over with, that's how I start doing those things I don't feel like doing. I mean, one can plough through 20 minutes of pretty much anything, right? And then it's done with. There will never be a better time, I won't ever feel it easier to start; avoiding it will form a habit, and so will engaging it.
- If you keep, update, review, throw out and re-do a model of how you're doing you won't be running through these assessment and progress tracking tasks when you're trying to go to sleep or devote your attention to a task at hand. There is a category of tasks where you're "playing" where you'll focus without effort. That is because they are meaningful to you. You should look forward to this, every day, schedule and prepare for it. Fun will not just find you, happiness will not just happen, and if you don't plan for resting it won't just somehow cram itself into your schedule.
- The BURN card is about keeping moving, not getting hung up on any one thing. Gautama said attachment leads to suffering. Gurjieff said "always have an aim".
- The other cards are about "do what you can, use what you have, where you are". This may sound like some high-productivity self-coaching nonsense, but it is actually a disaster recovery strategy. It gets you out of a hole and keeps you out. A thing that's not moving is often a dead thing. Should be moving.
- Nobody can help you. Except you can help you. Really, you can. Expect delightful developments.
- Eating/fasting, sleeping/caffeinating should be done in a controlled manner if you're to help yourself. Those are the climate to which your moods are the weather. Knowing good food and the time when it is good for you, bad sleep from good sleep and how to do it are the base rock on which you build. If you don't do it, everything shifts all the time, like sand. Or sinks like a bog.
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Concentration is a loaded word. It is not black and white, but feels like you're talking about a value that goes from zero to one possibly? How do you think about it? I came to think of it in terms of attention. In a model where your awareness of time, or of change is conditional on shifting your spotlight of attention it can be defined usefully, I think. So, in such a model your concentration is conditional on your…
Yes, concentration is attention. There are levels of concentration. With the final being Exclusive attention to the object. Again meditation goes more deeper into the model. If you are curious about it I'll suggest you to read the book. The Mind Illuminated by Culadasa.
Thanks!
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I put my monkey in a cage. I went around and logged the things I happen to be doing in a spreadsheet for three weeks. Assuming those are mostly the things I'll be doing going forward I've categorized them into action-cards. Those have groupings by space (home, out, job) and time (night, noon, morning). One card is titled BURN. If you play that card you can do whatever for 25 minutes, but you can't play two in a row.…
This is a really interesting technique! I'm happy this is working so well for you. Would make an interesting app though I suppose that would put you back on your phone.
Otherwise I'll find it very easy to BURN away.
And the most noticeable thing it did to my well being is a drastic reduction in ambient anxiety and proclivity to negative emotion. It is like what SSRI are supposed to be, but for real.
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#99Earlier quoted context omitted.
but because I need to control my emotion and how I respond. You discovered one the benefits of meditation.
Well, part of the problem meditation addresses is the desire to control one’s thoughts - which is usually counter productive. The more one tries to control and fight what is, the more pain that usually results. It’s usually more productive to notice them, notice their nature, and let them go when and where they do not serve your interests. With a small pat on the head, and some not small amount of empathy and caring.…
You discovered mindfulness, which is something meditation enables you to achieve.
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#100I had an unusual experience this weekend while I was sick. After laying around for 2 days with brain fog, I woke up early Sunday morning and watched TV, checked social media, etc, but was sick of consuming information and had the strangest feeling that I wanted to work on something productive but my body aches wouldn't let me concentrate. I also felt like.. playing video games? I haven't had the urge to play video ga…
I have ADHD. Being bored is simply.. not something that happens naturally. I have a zillion unfinished things, too many hobbies, too many games, too much work that I was supposed finish yesterday. My brain gets filled with all of this junk every day. As the day passes my thoughts progressively get more and more cluttered and noisy, like I've got every radio station on at the same time. I also get really anxious if I'…