In 1989 my grandparents built a home with 12" thick walls (6" was normal at the time, in the area) and carefully vapor-sealed the entire house, taking
extra special care to avoid holes which would let air move through the house in an unplanned way.
They paid extra (a lot extra) for the highest insulation value available for the fiberglass rolls they installed in the outside walls. They double-stacked the insulation, as well, which is why they built the walls so thick.
They poured the basement foundation on top of layers of foam insulation, and used piers (I don't know what they're called) down to the bedrock for structural integrity; the majority of the outside of basement floor was in contact only with insulation. Only 16-20 8" columns went through the insulation down to bedrock and could be good conduits for heat to the earth. All of the walls in the basement were double insulated from the earth they held back.
That house was heated entirely by the heat that the water heater released through its insulation. Once or twice a year they would light a candle on the dining room table, to bring the heat back up if it ever got below what they felt was comfortable. Most days they had windows cracked open on opposite sides of the house in the middle of winter because it got too hot even with the furnace turned off entirely. It was never less than 75F in that house, even when it was -15F outside. I spent months on end in that house, just wondering when the furnace would come on. It never did. Not once while they lived there was the furnace ever needed. They lived in Missouri, US.
Years later my grandfather realized that he had left the petcock which allowed hot water to circulate to the radiator over which air was blown and heated to circulate heat throughout the house closed for over a decade -- since the house was built. "I knew I wouldn't need this damn furnace. Building code requires it, and I fought that but lost."
If you're careful, thoughtful, and determined, you can make a little bit of heat go a very long way. They were tired of paying heating bills. They paid to get rid of them, but they were rid of them.