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Re: Poll: Why are people leaving their jobs?

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My old boss Eric Carlsen used to say, nobody left because of money. They may get more money if they change jobs. But they start looking because they're unhappy. So when somebody asked for more money, he'd start by asking what was bothering them.

I would leave any job if the competition offers a significant raise. I don't think this attitude is very prevalent nowadays.

Re: Poll: Why are people leaving their jobs?

#52

My old boss Eric Carlsen used to say, nobody left because of money. They may get more money if they change jobs. But they start looking because they're unhappy. So when somebody asked for more money, he'd start by asking what was bothering them.

I changed jobs last year because I was unhappy that I wasn't making enough money. These two things aren't completely unrelated.

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#54
I'll be departing my job at the end of the month. I had too many roles, affecting too many pieces of engineering, and my title didn't reflect my work. I needed to go down to a 4 day work week and have my title reflect my roles, but my manager attempted to call my bluff and essentially said it's not going to happen. I hinted about what my decision would have to be if these accomodations couldn't be made, but he didn't budge. When I gave my verbal notice, suddenly there was immediate backpedaling and said maybe something could be worked out. I declined because I don't negotiate like that. If you mismanage a negotiation, there is no do-overs just because you overplayed your hand. The trust is broken.

Re: Poll: Why are people leaving their jobs?

#55
Not sure if these count as company culture but: Frequent hiring freezes, blown out projects that never make progress, IT support outsourced to SEA where tickets that took hours before take days instead, upper management more focused on making new acquisitions rather than integrating existing business units, and so on.

Re: Poll: Why are people leaving their jobs?

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Earlier quoted context omitted.

https://randsinrepose.com/archives/shields-down/ is a classic article (and an incredibly important read for anyone in engineering management) that essentially argues that these two questions are fundamentally equivalent.

Jesus, I just looked at this article's bullet points for the factors that we evaluate in an instant when considering leaving a job. And where I failed every line. :\ I knew that I was looking for something else but I hadn't consciously realized it had gotten that bad. Am I happy with my job? Do I like my manager? My team? Is this project I’m working on fulfilling? Am I learning? Am I respected? Am I growing? Do I fee…

interesting. I'm a solid 'mixed' on these, although, I'm p/t contractor, not fte.

not respected, not growing, not strong trust.

learning - some, but I don't like some of what i'm having to learn (not terribly useful outside this project).

fulfilling... occasionally, but more often not.

It's not 'that bad' for me yet, but have been trying to watch out for these signs. I've been in your shoes - where it has gotten 'that bad', and often you don't realize until you're already there.

Good luck to you!

Re: Poll: Why are people leaving their jobs?

#57
I can find myself saying yes to all of these with my most recent move. I think Compensation in many cases is a canary for other issues. If I don't like the company culture, life balance, product I am working on, etc. I may do that for enough compensation. If the compensation stops being worth it you move.

Re: Poll: Why are people leaving their jobs?

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My old boss Eric Carlsen used to say, nobody left because of money. They may get more money if they change jobs. But they start looking because they're unhappy. So when somebody asked for more money, he'd start by asking what was bothering them.

I think the old generation really bought into this, but the new generation knows it's a load of bull. The poll makes it pretty obvious that compensation is the biggest reason folks leave, and it's the thinking of the old generation who doesn't know how to retain talent (they do, but they keep throwing pizza parties / sending out merch instead). It's a real "it can't be helped" mentality around retention.

More is certainly better, but at a certain point, you kind of know where the industry is, and that you're probably not going to get a radical bump (although maybe right now you are?), so while it still counts, you start looking at the other factors more.

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My old boss Eric Carlsen used to say, nobody left because of money. They may get more money if they change jobs. But they start looking because they're unhappy. So when somebody asked for more money, he'd start by asking what was bothering them.

If people feel like they aren't being fairly compensated they'll definitely leave over the money.

This is exactly right and I think a good example of why we shouldn't generalize.

I grew up poor - and judge me however you'd like - but I'd put up with less ideal conditions if the pay was worth it.

Reminds me of in college when I was a waiter - I typically didn't mind a table's behavior if I knew they were going to tip well.

Re: Poll: Why are people leaving their jobs?

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There are two questions at the core of this: "What made you look" and "What made you leave". They can have the same answers but this isn't a great poll IMO.

https://randsinrepose.com/archives/shields-down/ is a classic article (and an incredibly important read for anyone in engineering management) that essentially argues that these two questions are fundamentally equivalent.

I would argue that the best world for employees is one in which their shields are always down.
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