Earlier quoted context omitted.
It's not the original gift that is the problem, all maintainers start very happy early on but keeping software up while adding more features is costly, someone needs to pay an it's almost always paid by the maintainer in terms of free time. If you intend to keep it as the original gift, it will be called abandoned.
> keeping software up while adding more features is costly The software maintenance is also given out as a gift. That's a choice.
So he's perfectly entitled to choose not to do that any more, no?