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I think what's particularly scary about Grindr is just how much trouble even being on an app like that can get someone in. For example, a colleague of mine is from a country where being LGBT is not really tolerated, in the United States he uses Grindr. I can imagine an oppressive government buying dating app data to blackmail their users. I noticed in the Tinder TOS thread people complaining about how impossible it i…
With respect, that is easy to say when ~50% of the population is a potential partner and is easily determinable. When you are gay and the majority of guys are straight, finding partners organically is near impossible (unless you're in a gay bar or something). I'm not condoning Grindr's actions or that people shouldn't use it with care, but it really has become a key part of LGBT networking in the modern era.
The only time it was a bit weird is when a co-worker told me I look like his husband, not okay to say at work.