The only issue I have with microservices is when you're dealing with atomic things. Like in a monolith you'd probably just stick it all in a database transaction. But I can't find any good reads about how to deal with this in a distributed fashion. There's always caveats and ultimately the advice "just try not to do it" but at some point you will probably have an atomic action and you don't want to break your existin…
The need to do a cross-service atomic operation indicates that you chose the wrong service boundaries in your architecture. And, since it's microservices, it's near impossible to refactor it, while it could have been a simple thing to reorganize some code in a monolith (where it is also a good idea to make sure that DB transactions don't span wildly different parts of the source code, but the refactor to make that ha…
An example being something like an online gun store, you have a perfect service that handles orders. It's completely isolated and works fine. But now, 2 years later some local government has asked you "whenever someone buys a gun, you need to call into our webservice the moment the order is placed so we know a gun was sold, and you need to successfully do it, or you can't sell the item"
Now you've got a situation where you need an atomic operation, place the order and call the web service, or don't do it at all. You could say just place the order, do the web service call asynchronously and then delete the order afterwards. But you might not have that choice depending on what the regulations say. You can't do it before you place the order because what if payment fails?
The order service should not have any idea about blocking orders in specific scenarios. And now the architecture has broken down. Do you add this to the order service and break it's single responsibility? Will this be a bigger problem in the future and do you need to completely rearchitect your solution?