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I am finding that I have a very bimodal response to "He did it". When I write an RCA or just talk about near misses, I may give you enough details to figure out that Tom was the one who broke it, but I'm not going to say Tom on the record anywhere, with one extremely obvious exception. If I think Tom has a toxic combination of poor judgement, Dunning-Kruger syndrome, and a hint of narcissism (I'm not sure but I may b…
To me, the point of "blameless" PM is not to hide the identity of the person who was closest to the failure point. You can't understand what happened unless you know who did what, when. "Blameless" to me means you acknowledge that the ultimate problem isn't that someone made a mistake that caused an outage. The problem is that you had a system in place where someone could make a single mistake and cause an outage. If…
It's really easy for another developer to figure out who I'm talking about. Managers can't be arsed to figure it out, or at least pretend like they don't know.