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"As an open source author and maintainer, I think you're looking at this from the wrong way around. Good contributions are not the norm, they're the exception, " I've contributed to hundreds of projects, and maintained a ton, so i feel this pain, so please take what i say in that vein :) The question i usually ask when i see this is: "What is the thing you did that you think should have caused people's behavior to ch…
My personal and very subjective opinion is that it's not my hill to die on. The majority of most things is not good, books, music, business plans, you name it. Open source contributions are the same — and that's okay. Much like I don't have a problem with people who write books I personally don't like, I don't take issue with people whose contributions don't align with what I think is good. I try to focus my energy o…
I would also agree you are going to get some amount of crap no matter what. But, i would say if you want this to be different, it's not entirely on other people. Even with the best of intent, you can't expect contributors or teams or processes to behave magically just because they should. You usually need to motivate/incentivize or train the behaviors you want, and iterate the processes and your approach until you are getting what you want.