"PostgreSQL's model of one process per connection doesn't scale, so let's build a connection pooler that uses one process per connection." Certainly sounds like a strange concept. How well does it scale with thousands of connections?
We can have file systems like zfs that for all but maybe the largest and most exotic use cases are bulletproof and relatively easy to administrate. Why can’t we have SQL like this?
I guess we do in the form of CockroachDB or Yugabyte, but Postgres has been so aggressively evangelized try selling someone on those. I know of one or two companies that use them but it’s a tough sell.
There are tons of overpriced Postgres managed cloud offerings and consultancies, so my guess is that there is a heavy financially motivated astroturf campaign.