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If I'm kind of stiff in conversations with strangers but decent at programming, does that mean that your company doesn't have a place for me?
The problem with "decent at programming" is that it's often only a fraction of the job. You rarely get formal specifications and clear orders. Nearly everything involves discussion of the user's needs or eliciting the circumstances of a bug. Real programming is very little like they teach in school and even less like coding competition. Being good at programming is great, and mandatory, but if you can't also have a c…
If they have a whole arsenal of project managers, architects, product managers, engineering managers, business/product analysts and still give this kind of lousy excuse, I'd probably stay away. Chances are they don't have any real expertise in the domain they are working in.
And btw, requirement gathering and writing technical specifications are taught in school.