I love Erlang so much I haven't yet gotten around to learning another functional language. (still growing with erlang). I learned it reading Armstrong's book from Pragmatic Programmers. It was a joy. I'm also reading the OReilly book, and it seems good as well, though I can't tell how it would be if I didn't know the language already. As for the titles-- one is Programming Erlang, and the other is Erlang Programming!
I think you should learn Brainf*ck. It has awesome mental/intellectual benefits to you as a Erlang lover. No, but really.... ! And if you don't you will suffer! Muahaha!
I think its kinda silly that people will just ignore a language because it doesn't look like java/C/pascal. Its not like the syntax of erlang is stupid, or pointlessly obtuse.