splitting up frontend and backend development,
loading a dependency for every problem at hand,
microservices and the explosion of frontend frameworks
It is not as if you have to do that.I write a lot of software and I do the full stack, have zero dependencies, don't use microservices or frameworks.
I enjoy doing it and getting happy emails from users every day.
My suggestion if you love coding: Create your own world which is exactly as you like it.