There is an impenetrable glass ceiling in the states based on where you come from, where you went to school, if you can pass made up tests, and if you’re an extrovert.
For example, I’ve always wanted to work in R&D, but it’s impossible in the states. If you don’t have a masters degree from a good school, you can’t even get an interview. And (from my experience) you can’t get a masters degree from a good school unless you’re already rich.
For reasons I won’t bother going into, I’ve been denied getting into any Uni that would allow me to even get a degree that pass any kind of HR filter. Let alone have the personality to pass any needlessly high pressure white board interview.
Almost none of these things have mattered since I left, and I’ve had way more opportunities. Additionally, people in tech, in general, are far less shitty.
I was close to committing suicide in the states, and my life now is amazing (and has been for years).
Depending on the issues you’re facing, your personality, and if you live in the states now, I would highly recommend leaving and trying your hand elsewhere on the globe. Especially if you grew up poor.
(To preempt the “oh you didn’t try hard enough, it’s easy I just did xyz” - good on ya!)