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I'm in the same boat. But I don't think there's a lack of good info, but rather there's too much info and too many variants and options. There are probably many "correct" choices in the beginning, but we naturally want the good beginning and good long term maintainability/extendability. Rails without a JS frontend is excellent in so many cases. The trap is when you start adding a little JS here and there to make thin…
> What I'm hoping for is a configurator/wizard where you can choose your options, and then you get a fully functioning foundational system to start from. Not sure if Yeoman is still around but did they not attempt something similar?
And in the case of setup tools, they tend to all suffer from the problem of being very difficult to change once setup. The tool you use to build the customized foundation is often unable to make future modifications if you have changed any of the generated code.
But by now we know the 99% common options people want: a choice of a few databases, (probably but optional) user profiles and auth, etc. The database side is pretty much solved, but the user management is definitely not - and it's the source of so many data leaks.