Shame on you, this is a "no true scotsman" argument. "I don't want to argue X but proceeds to argue X " is a common yet despicable rhetoric trick.
For example; are the Nordics or most of Europe socialist?
If they are and are functioning it means it can work. If they are not, maybe people have differing opinions of what socialism entails.
What usually is a "no true scotsman" argument is when someone only calls something socialist when it's not working, because if an implementation is working that would deflate the argument. See a few posts above.