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You are right, I didn't teach low level math courses, but this brain washing is also precisely why I didn't understand math in high school. You cannot argue with this kind of definitions. Everything feels as if it was randomly defined by the teacher. This "intuition" simplifies teaching, but makes understanding harder. It is like a game where you invent rules as you play. No student can win this game.
Here’s the definition of 2 using the standard construction with the Peano axioms. It’s the set containing 0 and 1. The number 1 is the set containing 0 and 0 exists by one of the axioms. It’s not something a person in intermediate algebra can understand. For one, the natural question then is, “what is a set?”. Whatever one does there has to be some brain washing in order to get started. This is unavoidable unless one…
I'm fine with having an intuition for sets, but I think reals really should be defined properly. At least, R should not be confused with the algebraic closure of Q.