Not really.
1. There's no reason why a threat actor would have to send you 3-4 messages per day. Of the exploits I've seen, they only need to send one. Sending 3-4 messages per day just unnecessarily increases the risk of getting caught (ie. the target getting suspicious and asking on hacker news whether they're getting hacked)
2. There's no reason why the message has to contain sketchy links. They could very well disguise messages as ads/notifications for well known businesses, political organizations, or from random people who got the wrong phone number.
3. There's no reason why the attacker can't erase any trace of the initial message after your device is infected, so unless you're staring at your phone 24/7 it's very easy to miss the message.