The problem with this question is it is akin to those people on photography forums and elsewhere asking "what camera / lens / ISO /shutter speed / aperture" did you use ? As if somehow having the same combination will give them the same results. Surely the correct and only answer is "the right tech stack for the job". Trying to shoehorn everything into one chosen stack is only likely to end in dismal failure. Switchi…
That is assuming that there is a "right" stack in the first place. That thread is mostly proving the opposite, that the stack doesn't really matter.
"use the right tool for the right job", "don't focus on the flavor of the month", "focus on getting users before scalability" and "KISS" all have been said a thousand times. Saying that again leads to no new insight.