> So, your question is how to evade security alerts for actions with potentially significant side effects?
Well there's already a big ol' button in an email that says, "click me to register". The end user doesn't really care about the implementation. If one pops up a security alert (the POST form) and one doesn't (the simple link), how do you think everyone implements that big ol' button, 100% of the time, for 100% of everything?
I wish email didn't work this way, but as far as I understand, this is the lay of the land. If there's a better way, I'll be happy to implement it in the system(s) that I have control over.
I'm really asking for engagement within the community with help solving this sticky problem (if it wasn't clear). If link caching is this prevalent, what to do about it, for things like registering via email?