2) I ask for TSV, whenever convenient. It's been more reliable, and I don't have a comprehensive why, but I think it's slightly more resilient to writer/reader inconsistencies, for me. It may be that there's just less need for escaping and quoting, so you might dodge a smart quotes debacle when asking for a one-off from an Excel user, for example.
3) Despite the issues raised, the notion we'd retire it makes me hug it tight, because for the majority of my requirements, it hits a sweet spot. I still reserve the right to raise my fist in frustration when someone does: ",".join(mylist).