The Dark Forest makes so many (explicit and implicit) assumptions it starts to feel extremely dodgy. There are also falacious arguments embedded within it which fail to imagine numerous possible scenarios simply by following "tried and true" paths copy-pasted from sci-fi novels. TLDR: The forest analogy fails because civilizations are not singular entities (like animals are) but rather complex structures which can me…
It's safe to assume that for any self-replicating life evolution takes place, universally. The genes (no matter on their biological implementation) are always evaluated by one fitness function only – whether they succeed in spreading around.
Life isn't optimised for surviving per se, but it is optimised for replicating.
The same in a way applies for civilisations. The ones that are bad at expanding are massively outexpanded/outnumbered by the ones that are good at expanding. Unless expanding fundamentally always leads to civilisation's downfall (but I don't see how it would?)