Think about it more abstractly from the perspective of trust and # of actors involved.
If you run 100% of your IT workload on-prem, the ability to control the flow of data can be boiled down into a physical exercise of following fiber channel cables in your own datacenter. Having a unified set of firewall rules that define your entire public interface also helps a lot.
You can actually make deterministic guarantees to your customers that not only your own systems are secure, but also that the systems of your vendors and other 3rd parties are as well. The moment you start configuring site-to-site VPNs with 3rd parties across which you intend to transact sensitive business knowledge, you are surrendering an entire mountain of security constraints.
If we are being honest with ourselves, a lot of shops that are 100% on-prem probably have worse security practices than AWS, et. al. Perhaps the biggest hazard is really the hybrid model. If some fintech went 100% into the cloud without even an HSM on-prem to worry about, then you could probably have a solid argument on the other side of the spectrum. Also, remember that multi-cloud might seem like a resiliency measure, but it also adds another target to your back.
The middle ground is where all the pain seems to be. Hybrid cloud usually means more required trust than most organizations ever wanted to enter into. I frequently find myself as the harbinger of bad news when I get into deep-dive technical calls with some of our customers. Turns out a lot of the other vendors we work with like to bend the truth in order to make a quick buck. Many perverse incentives are pulling these massive organizations into hilariously-contorted IT stances, and some of us are starting to see a consulting opportunity.