Live data from Hacker News

Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

cq.mtc.dev

31–40 of 190 posts

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

#31

Absolutely love it. Does it support birthday, anniversary, and other special date reminders? Consider cribbing off of the Monica friends CRM [1] for inspiration. Any plans for an iOS version? [1] https://www.monicahq.com/

I made a personal CRM iOS app for myself and others. It supports these features besides special dates, which is on my road map. It’s basically a privacy and offline friendly UI around a SQLite db. https://amicu.app/

This is beyond awesome! Downloading now!

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

#32
post #2

Hello hackers. I wrote the app and I hope it can help others like me. I’m not very good at keeping in touch with friend and family. Also, my girlfriend likes little text messages here and there, and I’m not good at sending them. So “there’s an app for that,” right? No, there actually wasn’t. So I made one. I define the app as a smart device automation tool for text messages, calls and email that’ll help you stay in t…

I keep wondering what will happen if your girlfriend realizes “the app is doing it” - maybe explain to her that it’s hard for you to send those little messages. I think she’ll then appreciate it even more when you do send them.

See my story I posted in the comment!

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

#33

This is a cool idea. I constantly come across as a dick because a friend will message me, and I'll think about what to respond with, hesitate because I want to come up with the BEST response, then get distracted by another task, forget to text them back until the next day, etc. There are also people I only see every few months and have a blast with, then completely radio silence them for months until I see them again…

> I constantly come across as a dick because a friend will message me, and I'll think about what to respond with, hesitate because I want to come up with the BEST response, then get distracted by another task, forget to text them back until the next day, etc.

There are two paradigms I see people use to solve this:

1. Text back as soon as you see the message and be okay with your response not being optimal. This is what I do the most.

2. Don't open the app to read the message until you have time to respond, then commit to responding. This way you'll have the message notification reminding you to respond and you don't leave your friend on read.

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

#34

Love the simple design. $.02 - absolutely require interaction / customization before the app sends messages. Reminding people to send is service enough, and creates an interaction opportunity to refine settings. But sending automatically requires asymmetric attention between sender and recipient - which is almost always bad news for relationships, soon or over time.

Thanks! And I concur! By default, the app will not take any action and largely act as a helpful reminder, and I highly recommend this type of use!

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

#35
post #18

You should change: > email that’ll help you stay in touch with those that mean the most to you into: > email that’ll help you stay in touch with those who mean the most to you

I appreciate the copywrite feedback! Will do!

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

#36

Earlier quoted context omitted.

I made a personal CRM iOS app for myself and others. It supports these features besides special dates, which is on my road map. It’s basically a privacy and offline friendly UI around a SQLite db. https://amicu.app/

This is beyond awesome! Downloading now!

Thank you! If you’ve feedback you can reach me at @kaioelfke on Twitter or kai@amicu.app

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

#38
post #12

Earlier quoted context omitted.

Very nice! Congrats on launching. Pro-tip: do not let others know you have or use this. In general people will instantly devalue your outreaches, even though rationally that makes zero sense. You still think and care about them, but in a way that’s… you.

It is rational to devalue automatic communication. The birthday card you get from your dentist is not valued. That said I have lost touch with a lot of friends I care about. The best friends are those you can pick back up without maintenance I think.

I second that, but follow up reminders and warnings if you are to eager are really helpful, so reframing this app as helper and let people manually edit the messages is much better. I think particularly sentiment analysis on incoming and outgoing messages would be really helpful for many people not so good at casual communication. Maybe the app should start sending automatically if you really cannot decide for an option in order to not let you think too long. I think particularly positive response reinforcement is needed if one manages to keep up communication in symmetrical fashion.

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

#39
post #2

Hello hackers. I wrote the app and I hope it can help others like me. I’m not very good at keeping in touch with friend and family. Also, my girlfriend likes little text messages here and there, and I’m not good at sending them. So “there’s an app for that,” right? No, there actually wasn’t. So I made one. I define the app as a smart device automation tool for text messages, calls and email that’ll help you stay in t…

Hi i'am interested in a subscription model and if you have time an api to consume the data of the app like since how many time i've contacted someone. Add birthday etc ... Thanks for your work :)

I will keep this in mind!

Re: Show HN: I’m an introvert – made an app to help maintain connections with people

#40
Is there a function for this to populate the clipboard with the predefined text and maybe open the messaging program (like Signal, Telegram, Wire, WhatsApp)? This way it could also be used relatively easily with these apps which probably can't be automated like SMS...
Post reply on HN