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Really? Oracle actually makes a lot of sense to me for a database name (in the 'source of truth' sense, not in the prophet sense). Mongo, on the other hand, has definitely always had the racist/ablist slur as the first connotation for me.
I've learned almost all the slurs I know from comments or media sources complaining about them. It's the only place they're used in polite society.
"Almost all" does sound like a bit of a surprise, but thinking back on it the only one I know for a fact I heard for the first time outside of a corrective context was my elder uncles friends who enjoyed self-depreciating jokes, usually with slurs for eastern Europeans in them. I first heard those as a child and only realized years later they were offensive. Most others, I think, I honestly have no idea when i was first exposed to them.