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Working at a startup is overrated, both financially and emotionally

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Re: Working at a startup is overrated, both financially and emotionally

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I got out from the last startup. Started sleeping better immediately when I knew I was about to sign the termination. Founders wanted to be famous & millionaires and there was no meaning to be found.

The pay wasn't a critical thing in my suffering. Now I'm making a third less and feeling ten times better.

Re: Working at a startup is overrated, both financially and emotionally

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post #97

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This is relatable. It's incredibly satisfying building new things rather than maintaining decades old cruft, regardless of the paycheck, hours and stability. Also the joy of working in small nimble teams and the freedom to experiment with new technologies. Like everything in life these things are a tradeoff.

Umm, I do enjoy the things you mentioned (building new stuff, experiment with new tech) but I love doing that on my free time, without pressure, deadlines and bosses. At work, though, I love: boring stuff I can deal with easily, long epics that end up in features that are barely used (so, no big deal with critical bugs, also no need to be on call). At work I can be done in 4h and call it a day (which gives me TON of…

I often think about leaving my job for an enterprise role and doing exactly what you describe. After working for years in the professional services space I am confident I could do that job in a few hours per day and spend the rest on other more exciting things.

Re: Working at a startup is overrated, both financially and emotionally

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I'm not arguing that it isn't more risky for the founder. I'm saying that the payoff potential that remains esp when you look at the pool of startups, is almost never worth it compared to a job at a bigco, even at the top end. Eg this is me explaining why I wouldn't work at a startup as I shoulder more risk and very very low chance at a payoff better than I could get at a bigco, and worse case you spend 5 more years…

I think the key thing missing from your analysis is that some (most?) people aren't optimizing their careers for minimal risk and maximal pay. There are a great many other factors at play.

I didn't say there wernt, this is a message about my personal pov written while on the phone on the can, not a treatise or full data based coverage of all workers.

Re: Working at a startup is overrated, both financially and emotionally

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I think this is a really good article, but I think that one of the things it misses is that a huge reason the math works out so badly for startup employees is because founders and VCs take the lion's share of the gains. I mean, in my experience at startups, founders typically own around 40% of the equity. The option pool for all other employees is around 10-20%. Now, I certainly believe startup founders deserve far m…

From my own household/wife I have a person who's worked her ass off for a hugely incompetent CEO who has a majority stake. When I say ass off I mean 12-14 hours a day even on weekends. A promise of unlimited holidays and then coercing all employees to work during government mandated holidays and now he's trying to scam her out of her less than 1% options by coercing her to write a maternity leave policy that would ma…

> This is exploitation plain and simple

If so, it's voluntary exploitation. She can quit on Monday. Don't give 2 weeks notice if you feel the situation is abusive.

You'll lose a paycheck, but you always have to be prepared for that when at startups. Mainly because they die all the time, but also for these kinds of scenarios.

Re: Working at a startup is overrated, both financially and emotionally

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I think this is a really good article, but I think that one of the things it misses is that a huge reason the math works out so badly for startup employees is because founders and VCs take the lion's share of the gains. I mean, in my experience at startups, founders typically own around 40% of the equity. The option pool for all other employees is around 10-20%. Now, I certainly believe startup founders deserve far m…

This is why I’ve found a balance. I like to work at a startup, but they get the amount of hours they invest in me. Typically that means I get to spend much of my day enjoying fitness/outdoor activities but still get the potential for a nice bonus if the equity amounts to anything.

I’ll never again work obscene hours without obscene compensation. Even with the compensation I’m highly unlikely to do it.

Re: Working at a startup is overrated, both financially and emotionally

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post #218

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It's funny how often I got rejected after saying that I am not 24/7 available and that I believe that, if someone needs to have this kind of availability, it means that something in the company is not working and needs to be fixed. The words they used in the rejections were always something like: "we feel like you are not willing to put enough skin in the game" or "everyone else sees the opportunity here is is willin…

> if someone needs to have this kind of availability, it means that something in the company is not working and needs to be fixed. The crazy thing is, they think they can just throw manhours at bad planning and somehow make it work. You can literally plan well, have a good life and still come out ahead of these chaotic organizations that make everybody run in circles out of pure panic. I have seen this so often in fi…

There certainly is a place where working extremely hard pays off, John Carmack is an example of this, though he was a founder at the time.

So i wholly agree that the old adage "work smarter, not harder" applies here.

The fool is most likely yourself if you are available 24/7 and work long hours more often than not.

Re: Working at a startup is overrated, both financially and emotionally

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post #83

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> what founders risk in terms of opportunity costs and lower wages is usually only slightly more than very early stage employees Maybe this is different for others, but my co-founder and I spent 2 years bootstrapping before we got our first customer. We gave up 2 years of wages and consumed our savings to do this with no assurance of success, and even after that first customer it was another full year before we had a…

Stable doesn't really describe early stage startups at all. Just because there is a paycheck doesn't mean there will be one when a big account falls through. But anyway, I would urge founders to think more about the logarithmic utility of money and whether it makes sense to take 30x+ the gains of early employees. In particular, think of the number that make it all worthwhile and ask if you need to capture all the gai…

Why should leaders and team builders be more “equitable” than what is transactionally afforded by their diligent appreciation of their assets? How is the utility of money not best suited for those who created something from nothing versus those who entered into the tent after it was pitched? Aren’t there gradients of personal ambition being demonstrated between the two parties? If so, wouldn’t society be abler if the leaders were able to do more after having created the opportunity in the first place?

The generosity emerges out of the availability for lending the capital to strangers in society thanks to the successful investment realization.

Re: Working at a startup is overrated, both financially and emotionally

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I'm part of a mentoring group for recent college grads. One of our biggest challenges is that much of the conversation on HN, Twitter, Blind, and other sites assumes that FAANG admission is guaranteed. This becomes a major struggle for juniors when they realize that there aren't any FAANG offices in their location. Many others apply to FAANG but don't receive offers, which is devastating if every HN comment, medium a…

I work at a company that doesn’t offer a total compensation package competitive with a FAANG, but still definitely very healthy, and we do lose many straight-outta-college candidates all the time who are demanding base pay of $200k+ because “that’s what I’d get if I worked for Google.” After denying that, unfortunately, some candidates insinuate that being offered $1.x * 10^5 for an entry-level position is a shrewd p…

ironically google pay is competitively low when youre at that tier. having worked there and other places google pays the least out of top tier companies. (no im not considering amazon or msft as the same level)

Re: Working at a startup is overrated, both financially and emotionally

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post #138

This article isn’t about if you should join a startup vs. a big company. It’s about if you should join a startup vs. a FAANG company, which offers outrageous compensation & benefits. From that perspective, FAANG is the obvious choice 99% of the time. The more and apt comparison would be if you should work at a startup vs. a corporate job at a HP or Qualcomm. At those type of companies, compensation is not competitive…

There are other aspects that you need to take into consideration: bureaucracy, the enforced-by-law company values(last year I got an offer which seemed really appealing until I saw the contract and some of those clauses), the endless "open a jira ticket" for every little thing such as rebooting a development server or whatever(which ends up being a 2 day task with hours of explanations as opposed to ssh; sudo rebbot), the endless and pointless meetings which are filled with "we should" coming from people who love taking credit when something is going right but will toss the blame to anyone they can when they aren't. Not to mention absurd expenses for "business trips" which are pointless in the vast majority of cases. I've been to several of these and they were all a waste of money and time: seriously, fly 20 people across the world just so they can listen to 3 days of "we should" lectures, there goes a ton of money which could have been spent on something useful like training or even a few small bonuses for the people that have worked their asses off. I've worked in such environments for many many years and the idea of ending up in such a place again terrifies me(I certainly started appreciating the absence of all that crap, though I never really knew how much all that truly bothered me until I ran away from it).

My point is, if you decide to go with a FAANG, you will get the quirky benefits and traits but at the expense of having to throttle yourself much below your capacity and dealing with a ton of frustration coming from the corporate side of things.

Re: Working at a startup is overrated, both financially and emotionally

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post #92

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There are two types of options, NSO and ISO. You want ISO as an employee because it's better for taxes, but that has a 90-day exercise window set by the IRS. You can push for yourself paying higher taxes in exchange for more flexibility, but it's a tradeoff. https://carta.com/blog/pte-90-day-window/

Zach Holman one of the first github employees didn't get to exercise any of his options for the aforementioned reasons. When they tell you to throw your life away to believe in the vision, nobody tells that 24 y/o to get a lawyer to understand what that actually means. He compiled a list of startups with sane exercise windows: https://github.com/holman/extended-exercise-windows

At the bottom of that link: “It's worth noting that Andreessen Horowitz has come out in strong favor of the 90 day window. If you feel strongly about extended exercise windows, it might be worth considering whether a16z portfolio companies are a good fit for you.” with a link to https://a16z.com/2016/06/23/options-timing/

The a16z link is astonishingly self-serving. Their top line solution was: “One existing solution to the ‘dead equity’ problem has been — and still can be — to make exceptions where appropriate for certain exiting employees. In fact, employers make exceptions all the time for certain employees, depending on their contribution to the company, critical skill set, and so on.” Riiiiiiight - asking nicely for a handout when you are quitting is a great strategy!!

And I would love to know how they come to this conclusion “In our model, we estimate that moving from the current 90-day window to a 10-year window will cost the average remaining employee as much as 80% in incremental dilution.” - just, wow.

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