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Ask HN: How do you run better meetings?

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Re: Ask HN: How do you run better meetings?

#31
The simplest solution is to make all meetings optional. Then people will stop going to meetings that are not useful to them. You will be forced to find better solutions to the problems your meetings were solving sub-optimally.

Many meetings are used to simply coordinate activity. This can easily be done through asynchronous communication using email or instant messaging.

Re: Ask HN: How do you run better meetings?

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post #11

Some tips I've been learning: - Be ruthless about when you need to have a meeting. Its generally only if you need three or more decision-makers to come to a consensus on a strategy to solve some problem. - Be ruthless about who you invite; it's usually only people who have something explicitly to contribute or who you know wish to be included. - One person leading/driving the discussion, making sure to keep things on…

This basically touches all the points that I came here to write, except I want to add: - Check-in: Give each attendee 10-30s to just say how they're feeling, either in general or about the topic. This can do a lot to make individuals more likely to engage in the meeting, but also to help you assess the mindset of those attending and anticipate issues. - Framing: Beyond having a defined agenda and goal, it is also imp…

The idea about check-in is awesome! Someone mentioned it further down but "dead audience" is a problem, people often start to code or do other things during meetings. This is only gotten worse during the pandemic. So this feels like a great way to start a meeting without taking too much time! Thank you for the idea. Do you do this in every meeting you run? Do people in your meetings get tired of it after reoccurring meetings (for example doing this every meeting seems less exciting)?

Re: Ask HN: How do you run better meetings?

#33

For some, the meetings are a way to avoid loneliness. I have sympathy for that, but no tolerance. Every wasted minute is one I have to make up at the end of the day. My tip: Don't even start the meeting unless you know the criteria for ending it. Most people just run out the clock or try and use the time for something else -- deny them this.

Actually it's totally fine (and important) agenda to just socialize, maybe you shouldn't be on those meetings if you don't like them (I don't like them either if there are too many people).

Re: Ask HN: How do you run better meetings?

#34
post #11

Some tips I've been learning: - Be ruthless about when you need to have a meeting. Its generally only if you need three or more decision-makers to come to a consensus on a strategy to solve some problem. - Be ruthless about who you invite; it's usually only people who have something explicitly to contribute or who you know wish to be included. - One person leading/driving the discussion, making sure to keep things on…

These are are all essential but I think the only thing missing is that the person leading the meeting has to be controlling, their only job is to make the meeting productive through any means necessary. It is okay to cut people off and have that kick to offline or a separate meeting. The leader must control the meeting.

I think one thing that is missing in the Slack/no meeting discussions is that you can resolve things just as poorly (or worse!) via email/Slack/Teams. Effective communication is really really hard and requires significant effort.

Re: Ask HN: How do you run better meetings?

#35
Don't use the meeting as a forum to emote. We all make mistakes, we don't need a 5 minute monologue to explain it. We all hate meetings, we don't need to spend time on the actual meeting complaining about it. Have your information ready to go. Know how to use the mute button and be ready to respond right away. So much time is wasted by "I couldn't find the mute button" or whatever. Don't be passive aggressive. Just answer the question. If you don't know, say you will get back right after the meeting. If you aren't proficient at JIRA, make the ticket AFTER the meeting. This applies to all technology. If you can't do it in under 15 seconds, write it down and do it right later. Stop holding the meeting hostage cause you have to do your process, your way, in your time. "Hold on let me add it to my calender". No, write it down and do it after the meeting. Unless this is an actual deployment or something, don't waste time going through all the technical details; unless everyone on the call is very technical. Make the conversation accessible to all members of the call; or else they shouldn't be on the call. I can go on...

Re: Ask HN: How do you run better meetings?

#36

>How do you handle meeting feedback for meetings by others to make sure it is not just a random meeting with talking, no agenda, no clear outcomes and mainly information sharing? Easy. (Or at least easier said than done.) Only initiate/attend a meeting if one or more of these things are clearly defined before the meeting even takes place. It can be helpful to approach it like you would a ticket or a to-do at work: id…

All these points are very true. But let's say you are in a large international organization, competing audiences etc. How you handle political concerns when someone schedule an unnecessary meeting? Can you just tell them straight-ahead? I often find that for many people it is easier to initiate a meeting than rather to share information in written form (that would their work to prepare, while for a meeting everybody else has to spend time).

Re: Ask HN: How do you run better meetings?

#37
post #31

The simplest solution is to make all meetings optional. Then people will stop going to meetings that are not useful to them. You will be forced to find better solutions to the problems your meetings were solving sub-optimally. Many meetings are used to simply coordinate activity. This can easily be done through asynchronous communication using email or instant messaging.

If I'm called into a meeting and I don't see a clear need for me there, I'll ask why I was invited.

Usually there's a reason, but often it's just cause a question might come up that I can answer or similar. In those cases I'll let them know they can poke me if they really need me and then I'll join for whatever they need.

Thankfully my boss has understood that the less he's in our way the more we get done, so this works well.

Re: Ask HN: How do you run better meetings?

#38
I’d be equally interested in the discussion of how to efficiently come to agreements over text based back-and-forths. What I find more taxing are these drawn out back-and-forths in which keeping the attention of all stakeholders can be difficult.

Conversely, being “meeting first” demands everyone’s attention. Even for small scale projects I’d rather hop on a 5 minute call then get into it over slack.

Re: Ask HN: How do you run better meetings?

#39
post #20

Why are meetings better than records based (written, podcast, videos, whatever) asynchronous (remote friendly) discourse processes? I've never been in a meeting that I consider productive. I've never been in a meeting that, in my opinion, couldn't have been done better with at least 90% of the time spent in the meeting completed by reviewing materials before the meeting and then signing off on them. Even that 10% cou…

That is exactly my feeling! Yet I find most organizations do not implement async cultures and/or tools to run those processes. I feel that too often people do not want to do any upfront work to prepare an async discussion and rather expect everyone to do work by joining a meeting that could have been avoided. And then there is the social aspect that people rather want to talk via Zoom/Skype/Teams... than to write.

Re: Ask HN: How do you run better meetings?

#40
Here are some rules I have been pretty successful with (opinionated):

0.) Prevent meetings whenever possible

0.) Don't do meetings longer than 2 hours, better 1 hour

0.) Invite only people, that have to be there

1.) Set a topic and max. 3 goals per hour BEFORE inviting

2.) Prepare yourself BEFORE the meeting

3.) Repeat the goals visually at the beginning (on a board)

4.) Focus on the goals

5.) At halftime, revalidate the achieved goals

6.) Take the last 5-10 minutes to verify, the goals have been achieved

7.) Don't exceed the time limit (not even 5 minutes)

8.) If you finish earlier, leave the room earlier! (Don't talk about something else, because you are all there)

9.) Write an email with a SHORT summary to everyone, who may care

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