What is everyones favorite book on quantum mechanics (I would love understand more of the 3 generations of matter)?
If you want an undergraduate class in QM, edX has MIT's classes on line:
https://learning.edx.org/course/course-v1:MITx+8.04.1x+3T201...
If you want a textbook, Griffth's "Introduction to Quantum Mechanics" is the standard answer. It's very much a "shut up and calculate" book, you'll learn how to compute expected values of commutators without much intuition for what they mean.
Update: Others point out Griffth's "Introduction to Elementary Particles", read their recommendations, sounds like the way to go.
If don't want to spend 12 hours a week for 3 months and still not have learned much about the 3 generations, then ... I don't know, maybe QED: The Strange Theory of Light and Matter? I don't know if it has the 3 generations, but it only assumes high school math, yet gets into the quantum version of electricity and magnetism.