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Re: Ask HN: Those who quit their jobs to travel the world, how did it go?

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My partner and I took a year out for all of 2018 and travelled for 365 days, aged 34. We went to 21 countries during that time, the route: UK India Hong Kong Vietnam Cambodia Laos Thailand Russia Mongolia China Tibet Japan Malaysia Indonesia Australia New Zealand Fiji Hawaii North America Chile Bolivia Peru Colombia Brazil We saw many wonders of the world (from various lists) including Taj Mahal, Angkor Wot, Great Ba…

How do you plan such things and how do you keep your safety? I always wonder how many people get mugged or even dead during such trips?

Re: Ask HN: Those who quit their jobs to travel the world, how did it go?

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I'd love to hear concretely what you guys who traveled actually gained from traveling the world? Because I always hear that it's really exciting and you get to go to exciting places - but what exactly did you gain in terms of perspectives besides your instagram pictures and cocktail stories? I've never get beyond this superficial in hearing people's travel stories online and IRL. Maybe it's just me; but the idea of g…

I’ve gained perspective that I can get into important rooms because of my background, easier than I can in my own country. It makes considering to fight for inclusion in my home country seem to be a waste of my life and that I can choose causes to spend energy on without feeling like I was neglecting an obligation to my gender or heritage or race/ethnicity. I’ve gained perspective that there are a mixture of politica…

Thank you for your honest and personal answers! As an Asian guy living in America and reading between the lines re: your xp dating and how different cultures treat you, I can relate to a lot what you're saying.

>It helps me really resonate with the concept of going where you are treated the best, and building a life where that is possible.

Maybe it's me becoming institutionalized and just used to this by now in America lol; but I have a different perspective on this, oppression is universal (Puritans, Germans, Irish, Italians, Germans, Jews in 1700-1800's) and creativity is driven by constraints (blues/jazz was born on plantations, Cosa Nostras arose out of Italian Americans being shut of WASP society, the humor/hutzpah in spite of overt and covert anti-semitism is seen in Mel Brooks movies).

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My wife (girlfriend at the time) and I quit our jobs and spent 19 months travelling around Africa.

Upon our return we both "levelled-up" when we found new jobs.

For me, so much so that I was hired into a position I probably wasn't ready for.

I think the fact we'd had to face so much adversity in Africa, with no way to quit or give up - we were faced with situations which were literally figure out a solution or die - meant that we both developed incredible problem solving skills which our interviewers really valued.

We'd also been faced with an incredible number of corrupt police and border officials who were all trying to extract their pound of flesh. We developed really thick skins and were eventually quite adept at negotiating through the situation with our skins and wallets intact - again, very valuable skills in the workplace.

So the net effect was we had some incredible experiences, saw things we will likely never see again, and after all was said and done, came back into higher grade / better paying jobs than we would have if we'd stayed put!

To cap it all off, it just so happened that a large chunk of our trip coincided with the global financial crisis - so while friends of ours were getting laid off back home, we rolled on in our truck oblivious to the drama back home!

I did a small reddit write up on our trip here: https://www.reddit.com/r/pics/comments/53eqlt/i_quit_my_job_...

Re: Ask HN: Those who quit their jobs to travel the world, how did it go?

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I'd love to hear concretely what you guys who traveled actually gained from traveling the world? Because I always hear that it's really exciting and you get to go to exciting places - but what exactly did you gain in terms of perspectives besides your instagram pictures and cocktail stories? I've never get beyond this superficial in hearing people's travel stories online and IRL. Maybe it's just me; but the idea of g…

0. Experience joy. If you haven't you won't get it. The same kind of awe and joy you might have experienced the first time a compiler you wrote finishes without errors and you are able to run the executable.

1. I'd like to think it made me less intense and easier to work with at my (remote) job

2. I became more extroverted

3. I've embraced extreme uncertainty and became much more flexible and creative. Pivoting in life doesn't scare me. I thrive when things are in flux and I have to improvise.

4. It helped me discover my passion for street photography

5. I met amazing people and created a circle of friends

6. I met my wife

7. The pandemic has been a non-event for me

8. I have not experienced winter in 10 years

9. Amazing food. Nothing wrong with food in the US but it's not as good as most people think, especially if you are poor. Unless you live in NYC and you can afford it.

10. When I woke up pre-pandemic on Sat morning I had 100 postcard-worthy places to choose from that most people only dream about visiting in their lifetime. All within a one or two hour flight radius. When most people contemplate driving 4 hours up north to a state park, I was debating if Hong Kong or Bali are worth the extra hours of flight only for the weekend.

To sum it all up, if the thought of getting drunk with random non-English speaking people in a small bar in Tokyo you stumbled upon, or going astray and walking though a field in Myanmar to take you to a small village with no roads and interacting with the people there who are wearing traditional clothing doesn't excite you, than you won't get it. But that's ok, we all enjoy different things.

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I'd love to hear concretely what you guys who traveled actually gained from traveling the world? Because I always hear that it's really exciting and you get to go to exciting places - but what exactly did you gain in terms of perspectives besides your instagram pictures and cocktail stories? I've never get beyond this superficial in hearing people's travel stories online and IRL. Maybe it's just me; but the idea of g…

I thought like you in my early 20s. I remember thinking that travelling was a waste of money. Until my first travel. I visited New York and it completely blew my mind. That was almost 10 years ago and I can still remember the first time I got out of the subway, I was speechless. Sure it looked like all the movies I had seen but being actually there and feeling the life in that city was such a mind blowing experience. It was also my first time in the US. At the end I don't think I really "gained" anything from it, but it allowed me to experience a place that was so different from where I lived all my life.

Obviously each city is a different experience. I visited San Francisco and it was kinda meh. I visited Tokyo and it was dope. You can't really know until you actually go over there. :)

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Absolutely worth it, however I'd offer a few short tips: 1. Try to stay in one place for a few months, minimum. If you can stay a year or two, do that. Jumping from city to city every week seems exciting at first, but it quickly makes everywhere feel the same. 2. To quote Lao Tzu, when your work is done, forget it. If you work remotely, actively disconnect at the end of the day. It's too easy to be constantly plugged…

I agree with your points, just want to add: The best way to connect with the culture and people is to get a local job, or studying at a local university or at least taking courses. EDIT: Basically become an immigrant, even if it's only for a couple of months. Ideally don't plan your return, make your journeys open ended!

I have a question to people saying "get a local job"

What kind of jobs do you mean? Doesn't it look suspicious for a middle aged guy who looks from a different part of the world trying to get a job he clearly does not need?

To clarify, I don't feel above any job, when I first emigrated 12 years ago I was cleaning toilets and working construction, but I had no qualifications and I didnt meet anyone fun. I am also a TERRIBLE waiter.

Re: Ask HN: Those who quit their jobs to travel the world, how did it go?

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I quit my job at the end of 2014 after five years of saving, then backpacked Asia for two years. Then I returned home and worked for another year and a half, saved harder, then had another year - six months in Asia, six months in South America.

It was absolutely the best thing I've ever done, and despite being hugely expensive I would do it again in a heartbeat. To be honest I now have an eye on setting up a life where I can travel and work long term, given the increased prevalence of remote working opportunities.

For myself, I found that some of the usual clichés rang true:

- the best thing about the whole experience was (unexpectedly for an introvert) meeting so many different people. I stayed mainly in hostels in Asia, and primarily used AirBnB in South America, and 99% of the people I met were wonderful. As someone who had previously been a bit nervous around new people, this experience was a bit like opening Pandora's box and finding it full of kittens. I learned so much from the people I met, and had so many great and often unexpected experiences as a result, not to mention that fellow backpackers often had great tips for other places to visit. Despite being a clear ten years older than a lot of my fellow travellers, I never felt out of place as the majority were mature (well, either that or I'm immature I guess), unpretentious and easy-going.

- I did grow as a person, perhaps less than I would've done had I travelled when I was much younger, but I nonetheless widened my perspective on the world, and in particular came to realise that people everywhere are basically the same in what they want and need, and mostly just trying to make the best life they can for themselves. It's really nice to get away from the small-minded noise of the news media and vacuous TV, and see people as they really are. It was also great therapy - I had built up some stresses in the preceding ten years or so, and the chance to slow down and just exist without any particular demands on my time was enormously beneficial. Some days I visited places, some days I just relaxed.

- there are some places and experiences that are just magical, that you will never find unless you go away from your home - watching condors rise in the morning sun over the Colca Canyon in Peru, the unspeakable beauty of the Taj Mahal, the weird tension and pageantry at the DMZ between North and South Korea - there is a whole world out there waiting to be discovered and it's worth seeing.

I think any kind of travel is a privilege to be enjoyed as often as possible, but the main difference between a two-week holiday and a six-month travel is the total lack of pressure and the increased opportunities to explore that come with the latter. I have come to prefer one four-week trip over four one-week trips - quality over quantity. I agree with others in this thread recommending staying in one place for a while and getting to know it, rather than flitting between destinations, ticking boxes but taking little away from the experience. I also love revisiting a place I've already travelled - it feels like I have a second home, complete with favourite spots and a way of life that I understand, but retaining all the quirks and charms of a different place and culture.

Some other random thoughts:

- working while travelling is a great way to do it, but if you can afford to, taking some time to forget about work and just 'be' can be extremely good for your mental health, and your enjoyment of a place.

- if you're backpacking - everything you take, you have to carry, and most places have access to most things you need that you didn't bring - carrying 25+ kgs is good exercise but it gets tiring! Don't forget you'll pick up souvenirs along the way.

- going off the beaten track is highly recommended, but then again a lot of popular destinations are popular for good reasons - it's nice to have a mixture.

- I never booked travel tickets more than one country ahead, just enough to satisfy the entry requirements of every country I visited, and I really enjoyed that flexibility.

- I also usually knew almost nothing about a country when I arrived there, and relied on serendipity or else started my research when I arrived. I missed some things but I also enjoyed the experience of exploring with no preconceptions, learned to be more comfortable with uncertainty, and got to do some things that weren't in the guidebooks.

- in Asia, not speaking the local language is not generally much of a barrier to getting around, although it helps to learn at least the fundamentals, not to mention that I personally think it's more respectful; in South America, not having Spanish will make life more difficult but fortunately for English speakers, the basics are comparatively easy to pick up (I did some of the Duolingo course before I travelled, in anticipation, then picked up more while I was there).

- if you're nervous about losing your stuff, get a lockable bag - I travelled with a Pacsafe backpack, never worried I would lose anything, and didn't (no affiliation, just a fan). Hostels often have lockers but not always.

- I took somewhere in the region of 30,000 photos over that time - not just the posed Instagram-worthy shots, but photos of lots of other random things. I will probably never show anyone else, but they will augment my memories in years to come.

- try all the food, even the stuff you don't want to try - some things are unexpectedly delicious, and the odd bad experience makes a great story!

Well that's a lot of rambling, but anyway - I did it, totally loved it, and recommend it to anyone who is inclined that way.

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