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The continuing series of qualifications "it's kinda like this, for what you're talking about" gets pretty rough there, even when explaining, say, Kubernetes to adults! It can be a confidence crusher. There's also the flip side response which is always asking a lot of questions about "well then what are the other sorts of numbers" and eventually getting shut down "we're not talking about that now" which comes back to…
> It can be a confidence crusher. If confidence gets priority over truth in explanations, then society will churn out people who are confidently wrong. This is a bad idea even if everybody does that and even if it is the traditional approach. If people were honest that they don't know something then the world at large would be a lot nicer to live in.
I really don't see people being confidently wrong about abstract mathematics as an issue. I certainly don't know the rigorous definitions of an integral, but I can apply the concepts of calculus to everyday life perfectly fine. People who care about rigorous math can do rigorous math, and I'm glad if they teach me an intuitive understanding that lets me live a happy, productive life.
Personally, I find layers of abstraction necessary for learning. Maybe there are people who don't, I suspect they would have to be prodigies though. Tell me how to add fractions practically, then teach me the principles when I need to know them. Framing that as a lie seems wrong to me, I'd call it "bounded knowledge".