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I don't think the "fear of women" thing is real. At least it isn't real in SF where I've worked for the last eight years.
It's a real thing among the group of guys who exhibit creepy/abusive behavior towards women. They used to be able to get away with it, now they realize they may not be able to anymore. They aren't so much afraid of women, as they are afraid of consequences for their actions.
Anyone you hear complaining about it is the very kind of person who needed to be on notice in the first place.